itzzzz......nt a blunder to say 'no'....

hey guys ,all we are bothered abt the fact tht games has been ended .and worried even too that did we really back in the condition of delhi as it before?itz really damn worried but in all this plunders i realised that after closing cermony someone fry pakoras on the street side however ,i was happy that i could get the fiirst customer.i saw chaddha  ji had eaten a plate before tht.hey there was a discussion between them.as i reach i found tht he was asking for a birthday party order to him.but he just said 'no' i cound not take any orders after opening dhabha so i should say no.rather than saying half yes to you. this made me suprised about his dialogue this his words are really worth at tht time .he says"anmanne dil se haan kehne se aacch ahai purre dil s na kahun....aur agar tkoi burra manta hai tu isme meri koi galati nahi hai."he is an illetrate person bt showing more wisdom then us.mostly this happens with me and i think most of us we just in case of petending to be good we arev losing our own self respect and love for our owm comments.we just say yes to make anuone self appy without bothering our known self.the jist of me words is in simple sentence .if u can't afford to say yes then never say a fake yes b'coz ur respect is from your own character and your own way but not by helping others while u r feeling yourself helpless.okay gud to share my viws to all...great time..have fun...b'coz this is what life is all about.